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How To Seduce A Man?

The great seductresses of history and legend – Cleopatra, Eve, the Sirens – were able to tempt men to abandon honor, virtue, wife and even life itself to satisfy their desire. Although a seductress's great beauty was certainly a factor in winning men over to her charms, more often it was her cunning knowledge of human psychology.

Seduction is a specialized form of persuasion that uses a man's weaknesses (such as his pride, sexual desire, or susceptibility to flattery) to convince him to do something which he would otherwise not do. A woman in love with a married man needs all the arts of seduction to convince him to break his marriage vows. A woman who wants to steal a man away from his current partner needs great skill in these arts as well.

If you wish to seduce a man, you will be faced with the challenge of convincing him to do something that may be against his principles. At the same time, you will be aided by the simplicity of your request. You are not asking that he fall in love with you or even marry you. The definition of seduction is "to persuade to have sexual intercourse."

Be wary: the skills of seduction are distinct to those required to make a man fall in love with you. When you seduce a man, you will make him crazy for you with lust. He will be intoxicated and infatuated with you. However, infatuation is different from the genuine love that bonds committed couples. Seduction casts a spell that soon wears off.

If you wish to seduce a man, you must first discover his weak points. Is he proud? Does he like being seen with beautiful women? Does he say that his partner is always nagging him? Does he wish, more than anything, to simply be with someone who asks nothing of him? Knowing these “buttons” will help you in creating your seduction plan.

Many men live stressful lives with pressure to perform coming at them at all sides. One successful seduction technique is to position yourself as the woman who is there to listen to him, to nod understandingly, and to comfort him when he feels misunderstood by the world. Never presume to give him advice or criticize his behavior; instead, allow him to talk without interruption. Comfort him by putting a sympathetic hand on his arm or giving him a small backrub. Reassure him that he is, indeed, a competent, strong, capable man. Tease him gently to bring him out of his dark thoughts and into a lighthearted place. He will appreciate you for being the only one who understands him, the one who can make him laugh when he's feeling down.

Your seduction success will depend on how well you can distinguish yourself from the other women in his life. You listen to him. You never nag. You fill needs that his wife never would. You are always happy to see him. You make him laugh. You take him out of his daily life and bring him into a magical place where he is a king who can do nothing wrong.

But always remember: you can make a man become infatuated with you, but you cannot make him love with you. Genuine love comes from a very different place, one of honest disclosure, openness, and trust. It's your choice.

If you want to learn more about how to not simply seduce a man, but make him love the REAL you, then you're ready for my FREE “How to Be Irresistible to Men” 6-Part Mini-Course. It will teach you strategies for attracting a man on a deeper level. You'll learn what it takes to capture his heart, not just his body.

Amy Waterman
19 May 2007

Amy Waterman is a relationships expert who's well-known for her online courses and ebooks. She's helped thousands of women attract the man of their dreams for lasting love and commitment.

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Secrets on How To Keep Your Love Alive

There are those that you don't need to think about how to keep your love alive, or even do anything about it. Some think that love just keeps on going and going and going, just like the Eveready Bunny. 

But remember, even that little pink bunny rabbit had to be recharged sometimes. So, then, does your love. 

Here, then, are some pointers on how to keep your love alive. 

The first thing you want to do is add a little excitement now and then. Pretend it's your first date and dress and bathe and act accordingly. Don't assume because she loves you she won't care that you're slovenly or don't listen to his stories. 

Change the old routines a little, liven up your schedule. Add a little excitement, a little romantic night on the town, a cozy winter's night by the fireplace in a cabin in the woods for the weekend.

Set aside one day a week, or at least every two weeks for a few hours alone together, with absolutely no interruptions. Be spontaneous. 

Put your partner back on the pedestal you had her or him on when you first fell in love. Be realistic of course, but focus on his or her unique gifts. 

How to keep your love alive is to remind yourself that your partner is special. Buy yourself a journal or a notebook. Write down what he or she does each day that makes him or her sweet or loving or special in your eyes. Write down as well how you felt about your mate when you first met. Look at how those things still exist. 

How to keep your love alive is to let your love inside your head and your heart. If you find yourself criticizing, stop. Even if your complaint is valid, it's often about a minor detail that can be overlooked. After all, keeping your love alive isn't minor. 

Understanding both of your expectations and realizing what can and can't be fulfilled – what is and isn't realistic is part of how to keep your love alive as well. Sometimes we have disappointments in our life that we blame on our partner, and it's really our own failures – or caused by outside forces.

Sometimes we fixate on what we didn't get to the point that we're unable to see what gifts we do have. Focusing on the positive things that have come from our relationship is part of how to keep your love alive. 

Another realization that's important as well, is that our mates, our partners, our spouses are not responsible for our own happiness. We are responsible for our happiness. Putting too much responsibility on our partners to make us happy is not fair and a hefty burden for her or him to carry. 

Making a happy and fulfilled bit of life outside of your relationship with your mate is part of how to keep your love alive as well.    

Jason Roberts
01 June 2007

Jason Roberts is a writer for GuaranteedOnlineDatingSystem.com which is an excellent place to find Dating links, For more information go to: www.guaranteedonlinedatingsystem.com